GRABBING IS A BAD IDEA, EVEN WHEN IT WORKS

It is up to the rest of us to respect ourselves and others in a way that deconstructs the feedback loop of rewarding the objectification of women that, at least for now,  still works. ~~~ Being single can be challenging, even difficult for men.  Some lack confidence.  Some look for lovers only to find “friends”.  […]

WHEN SEX TOYS BECOME “MARITAL AIDS”

Although many of the benefits of sex toys are obvious to anyone who owns them, the “sex positive” effect they can have on a relationship is where their full potential value resides. ~~~ So what’s your take on sex toys?  Do you think of them as a private secret?  Something to be kept in the […]

OH SEX, WHAT’S LUCK GOT TO DO WITH IT?

“I’m getting lucky tonight!” It’s a phrase we all know well. It’s that ageless colloquialism that proclaims to the world, “I’m about to have sex, and I’m pretty damn happy about it!” It’s certainly a great feeling, all of that excitement anticipation can bring – especially if you’re about to get busy with someone who […]

THE BUBBLE IS HELP FOR DESIRE TROUBLE

  Imagine there was a place you could go, where the elements of desire were guaranteed to be found: Welcome to “The Bubble” … an antidote for desire trouble. ~~~ I want to try something just a little bit different with this posting. I am going to diverge from my typical approach and ask for […]

SEX IS LIKE FOOD

Sex is like food? … take a moment to consider my reasoning, and perhaps you can begin to change your diet into a gourmet’s adventure.

WHERE DID ALL OF THAT HOT SEX GO?

… it’s not so much that desire is evaporating as it is that many of the components of your desire have been fulfilled, are no longer deemed important or no longer apply. _____ Remember all of that amazing sex you used to have? When you couldn’t wait to get naked with your future long-term partner, […]

THE 2 OBSTACLES TO MAKING SEXUAL FANTASY A REALITY

Having the sex life of your dreams is nothing short of a fantasy come true. And there are few truer ways to that end than to identify, then close, any gaps that may exist between the reality and fantasy of your current sex life. _____ Few would disagree that fantasy plays an important role in […]